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Hi, I'm Kelly McDaniel.

The pain of a broken heart is a lonely experience. You may want to hide. Yet healing heartbreak is not possible alone. We aren’t designed to heal by ourselves. Each one of us needs a trusted guide when we’re lost and in pain.

As an author and a clinician, I’ve been studying and naming a particular type of heartbreak that is unspeakable…Mother Hunger™. Consequently, I’ve learned a few things about healing heartbreak and betrayal. Together, we will ease the heaviness you’ve been carrying alone.

How I Help

I designed Mother Hunger™ Intensives to target the hidden heartbreak behind relationship dissatisfaction, absent life goals, and mood regulation difficulties. Intensives are designed for women who seek a trauma-informed, one-on-one, custom-tailored experience for issues covered in my book Ready to Heal (2012, 3rd ed.)

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Ready To Heal

In 2008, Gentle Path Press published my first book, Ready to Heal. With a focus on women, Ready to Heal provided case studies and guidelines for healing addictive love and sex. The book emerged from a recognition that women needed gender specific information about addictive relationships. In a culture that objectifies female bodies and women’s wisdom, Ready to Heal outlines the inescapable impasse that occurs for women who desire love but are pathologized for this normal, human desire.

The success of RTH led to a second edition in 2012 with an expanded chapter on the original term “Mother Hunger™.” I coined the term Mother Hunger™ to name the craving and loneliness underneath addictive love and sex. This concept has helped both clinicians and clients identify the origin of addictive relationships, and foster the healing process.

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LPC, NCC, CSAT

Kelly McDaniel developed the term “Mother Hunger™” in her first book Ready to Heal, identifying the attachment trauma between mother and daughter that creates an environment ripe for love addiction. Part educator, part clinician, McDaniel also illuminates the cultural bind for women who are healing from addictive relational patterns in her book Ready to Heal: Women facing love, sex and relationship addiction, and her contribution to Making Advances; A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts.

Education and Licensing

●1991: MA: English Literature; Georgetown University, Washington, DC
●2004: MA: Counseling; St. Mary’s University, San Antonio, Texas
●2005: Licensed Professional Counselor
●2005: National Certified Counselor

Training and Certifications

● 2002-Fall Intensive: Wellesley Stone Center for Research
● 2003-Harvard Medical Series: Trauma and Attachment
● 2005-Certified Sex Addiction Therapist: Patrick Carnes and IITAP
● 2005-Post Induction Training: Pia Mellody and The Meadows
● 2010-Emotional Focused Therapy: Dr. Sue Johnson
● 2010-Imago training with Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
● 2013-EMDR I and II
● 2017-Constellation Therapy: Inherited Family Trauma: Hellinger Institute

Presentations and Publications

2006: Sexual abuse and sexual addiction. 10 hour workshop for LCDC candidates. University of Texas, Recovery Center.
2005-2007: What is sex and love addiction? Presentation for MA students in Counseling/Psychology. Webster University, San Antonio, Texas.
2007: Healthy Sexuality and Parenting. Presentation for Moms of Multiples, a nationally organized group supporting mothers with twins or more.
2007: Sexual abuse and sexual addiction. Presentation for Rape Crisis Center, San Antonio, TX.
2008: Author Ready to Heal: Women Facing Love, Sex, and Relationship Addiction. Published by Gentle Path Press.
2008: Women’s Summit at Life Healing Center, Santa Fe, New Mexico.
2008: Presentation for the Meadows. Healing Addictive Relationships.
2008: Presentation Santé Center for Healing with clinical director Ron Arrington. Sex and Love Addiction: His, Hers, and Theirs
2009: Workshop for City Services, New York, New York: Healing Mother wounding and inherited sexual beliefs for women.
2009: International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals: Panel discussion for the treatment of women and compulsive romantic activity
2009: Presentation sponsored by Santé Center for Healing. Identifying and Treating Sex and Love addiction.
2009: Presentation for Army Family Life Advocacy Conference: Louisville, Kentucky. Women, Sex, and Addiction
2009: Presentation for Society of Advancement of Sexual Health: 1⁄2 Day Pre-Conference training for clinicians. San Diego, CA.
2009: September issue Glamour: Quoted in Sex with a Stranger
2012: Author Ready to Heal, Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships, Ed. 2.
2012: Contributing author Making Advances, A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts, Edited M. Ferree.
2012: Faculty for Society for Advancement Sexual Health: Training in Problematic Sexual Behavior: Women’s track.
2013: Presentation for the Meadows: “Unable to Attach, The Legacy of Sex and Love Addiction.” Austin, Texas
2016: Faculty for Society of Advancement Sexual Health: Training in Problematic Sexual Behavior: Women’s track.
2017: Presentation for Ken Adams: “Mother Hunger™: Understanding Women and Addiction.” Detroit, Michigan
2017: Workshop for Ken Adams: “Mother Hunger™: How your Mother’s love runs your romantic choices” Detroit, Michigan
2017: Presentation for SASH: “Healing Mother Hunger™: Helping Women Integrate the Divided Self.” Salt Lake City, Utah
2018: Presentation for Santé Center for Healing and Society for Advancement of Sexual Health: “Women and Attachment; Integrating the Divided Self.” Argyle, Texas
2019: Webinar Presentation for IITAP: "Mother Hunger™ Wisdom: A Trauma Informed Model to Help Women Heal Addictive Love, Relational Betrayal and Compulsive Habits.” Nashville, Tennessee
2019: Presentation for 14th Annual IITAP Symposium: “He Said, She Said: How do we define ‘consent’ in an ever changing socioculture landscape?”, Discussion, Phoenix, Arizona