Breaking the Cycle Film
“Breaking the Cycle contrasts the two basic ways societies can function: the optimal approach, which most human societies through time have followed, is the Cycle of Cooperative Companionship where children’s basic needs are met; they grow into well-functioning, cooperative community members (from neurobiology and on up); and as healthy adults, they maintain the cooperative system. Currently in the …
Connectfulness Practice Podcast: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel
“Perhaps you’re one of many who feel a sense of dread and grief as Mother’s Day nears. These feelings may be related to the attachment injury Kelly McDaniel, LPC has termed “Mother Hunger.” It’s a term that helps women name the unspeakable pain that emerges from early childhood trauma and its lasting impact. Kelly McDaniel, …
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Article: In Praise of Maternal Guilt
“A recent book, “Power Moms,” asserts that “working-mother guilt persists in American society today because gender-role expectations haven’t evolved enough.” Here’s another perspective: If you feel guilty, it’s because you know your children need you. Maternal guilt, within reason, isn’t a bad feeling to be ditched. It’s a signal feeling—one that helps us to focus …
Mother’s Day & Mother Hunger
April brings the anniversary of so much loss and grief. After a year of family and self-preservation, life is quickening again. This is challenging for many of us who aren’t sure we want to return to anything that resembles pre-pandemic “normal”. With Mother Hunger publication nearing (July 20th) so much is happening that isn’t “normal.” I want to be …
The Healing Trauma Podcast with Monique Koven
Monique Koven and I discuss Mother Hunger on The Healing Trauma Podcast.
Covid-19 & Maternal Mental Health
It’s been a while since my last note to you. Somehow, we have made it to February. Writing about mothers and mothering during a global health crisis brings unimaginable challenges and opportunities for education. Covid-19 is threatening every fiber of maternal mental health. Recently, the New York Times article How Society Has Turned Its Back on …
Interview on the Connectfulness® Practice Podcast
Listen to my conversation with Rebecca Wong on the Connectfulness® Practice Podcast!
‘America Doesn’t Care’ and Mother Hunger
Sharing this excellent article by Meg Conley, America Doesn’t Care About Mothers. It’s a powerful testament to the existing, systemic struggle mothers navigate every day, and how an enduring pandemic is creating toxic stress for women and children. I love the way she wraps it up in a nutshell saying: “If we can’t fix our culture, can …